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Rom 12:9 Let love
be without dissimulation.
Abhor that which is evil;
cleave to that which is good.
Rom 12:10 Be kindly
affectioned one to another with brotherly love; in honour preferring one another;
Rom 12:11 Not
slothful in business; fervent
in spirit; serving
the Lord;
Rom 12:12 Rejoicing in hope; patient in tribulation; continuing instant in prayer;
Rom 12:13 Distributing to the necessity of saints; given to hospitality.
Rom 12:14 Bless them which persecute you: bless, and curse not.
Rom 12:15 Rejoice with them that do rejoice, and weep with them that weep.
Rom 12:16 Be of the same mind one toward another. Mind not high things, but condescend to men of low estate. Be not
wise in your own conceits.
Rom 12:17 Recompense to no man evil for evil. Provide things honest in the sight of all
men.
Rom 12:18 If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all
men.
Rom 12:19 Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place
unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord.
Rom 12:20 Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for in so
doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head.
Rom 12:21 Be
not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.
Main Points: How should Christians
act toward one another and toward unbelievers? Overcome evil with good. Says it
all.
6. How can we have genuine love, or
love without hypocrisy? It is answered in the end of the verse: Love is void of
evil and holds on to good. The concept of hypocrisy comes from a root word
meaning to speak or act under a false part. This is not an act of compulsion.
Our Christian family becomes our greatest concern. It is borne out of our
understanding of God’s love.
7. Write down the rest of the
commandments for a Christian from each verse. Then explain how you can obey the
command:
Verse 9: have a benevolent love
toward each other - detest hurtful (evil), glue yourself to good (benefit,
beautiful): The Christian simply looks to benefit the lives around him/her.
Always seek goodness/equity/justice/truth.
Verse 10: Cherish each other/be
fond of fellow Christians (requires active thoughtfulness). Place value on
others: This is impossible without effort. Why would Paul need to say this? It
seems he was dealing with a lot of
self-centeredness.
Verse 11: Be engaged and do not
ignore Christian service. Be active in the spirit(ual things), (be) a slave to
God/Jesus: Paul is directing attention to build up the body. In this, his focus
is on the Christian sharing those things that are most important….thinking-acting
spiritually with the focus on God/Jesus. Worship is a big part of that and
something Christians get to do together to build that engagement (any time they
are together). (Prayer – study- singing etc) These things happen during a
formal and informal gathering. Remember who we work for!
Verse 12: Be cheerfully hopeful, ready
to endure hardship, continually pray: Christians face ridicule almost
continually, but if we stay in contact with the Father and turn our cares over
to Him, we will endure the pettiness of scoffers. This can be difficult
sometimes…right?!
Verse 13: Serve the saints (be
helpful), have a propensity to have guests (most specifically, strangers):
Again, Paul is looking to unify this congregation. They should think of each
other first….and practice hospitality, even to strangers. That last part can be
difficult at times, but the main concept here is to keep our fellow Christians
in mind for service (to them).
Verse 14: Speak well of unbelievers
that persecute you, do not curse them: Another difficult saying. This requires
a disassociation of our ego and requires us to understand that the unbeliever
needs the Lord like anyone else. Their souls are in trouble!
Verse 15: Share each other’s
experiences, whether cheerful or out-loud wailing: If we are practicing brotherly affection towards one another, this will be a natural outcome.
Empathy/Sympathy.
Verse 16: Have the same mind/goals,
don’t be conceited, associate with the depressed and less fortunate: We might
not always agree on the minutia of everything but we can always be headed for
the same goal(s). As Paul warned in chapter eleven, don’t think too highly of
yourselves! Remember Jesus came for those who are sick, not the “healthy”.
Weren’t we “sick” too at one time?
Verse 17: Evil should not beget
evil, but do what is beautiful: Jesus and the Christian is about GOOD THINGS,
not evil (vengeance etc). Again, remember, we were sick too. Stepping away from
an initial visceral reaction helps accomplish this. Cool off….think things
through.
Verse 18: be peaceable (quiet) with
everyone: Not always easy. Being quiet is always a good start to this end.
Verses 19-21: do not have a
vindictive mannerism, even with your enemies - practice compassion and acts of
kindness, be good: Being good here means to be beneficial and evil means
worthlessness. Paul is illustrating the worthlessness of conceit, being offended
and looking for retribution. He says we need to do good things for those who
are stuck in and evil cycle.